The Modern Mum Village

We’re not meant to do this alone. It really does take a village, but many of us are without one. My Modern Mum Village gives you the knowledge and support you need with a group of epic mums that will have your back. We dive into our motherhood journey and discover why we partner, parent and are the way we are. More importantly we take the time to figure out what we want motherhood to look like and how we can get it!

Get the care you need, guilt free. You are enough as you are, and you deserve this time for yourself.

Our next round starts Feb 2025.

Our next round starts Feb 2025.

Are you great at looking after everyone else?
What about you?
Unsure of what you need? And how to get it?
Do you put yourself last? Experience mum rage, resentment and a tonne of tension?

This is online emotional coaching with a difference. We work to prioritise you and your own self-care. Bringing the best version of yourself to your family, friends and colleagues. And bringing joy and energy to you.

What’s included

Weekly education and emotionally coaching group sessions for 2 x 6 week
Education Sessions -> Mondays afternoons at 1pm AEDT. In these sessions we explore different topics and our mind and bodies understanding of them. We look at what we were modelled, what's currently playing out for us and what we want it to look and feel like moving forward.
Connection Sessions -> Thursday evenings at 8pm AEDT. Come and be heard, ask questions, understand yourself a whole lot more and learn from simply witnessing others

These sessions go for about 2 hours. You don't have to stay for the whole session or attend them live at all. You can catch the recording at anytime that suits you. You also don't have to attend both sessions each week.

Access to all recorded content until the July 2025
The ability to turn up in whatever capacity suits you, cameras on or off, unmute and chat or sit back and listen
Content to work through should you wish, at your own pace, with helpful questions to work through to help shift those stories
The ability to share, connect and ask questions to enable you to go deeper and feel supported
Access to everything and everyone in one easy to use platform (that has it's own app - we use Kajabi), no need for zoom or Facebook
Accountability in the form of email reminders when we go live the group to connect with
The option to find your people, this is really what the village is about, support. You can buddy up with another epic woman and really start to shift your stories.
A community of like-minded people in a super supportive space

Topics include

Explore who you are and why you do what you do. That way you can create sustainable change

Where you are at in your motherhood journey and where you want to be
Understanding your feelings, why they are there and what you want to do with them
Identifying your needs: ummm who am I now?
Determining your version of self-care: why you deserve it and how to achieve it
Understanding your stories: why you react the way you do
Your emotional love language and how to repattern it
Control mechanisms and numbing out: why you sit on the couch and scroll IG whilst eating a tub of ice-cream
Mum rage and resentment: how to move from taking score to taking care
Connection with our bodies: moving from shame to honour
Intimacy and partner connection postpartum: physical and emotional needs
Ditching the good girl and dropping into the bad arse wise woman energy
Trusting life and letting go of fear
Joy, abundance and enoughness
and a whole lot more!

Thanks B

Hey B

I just wanted to drop in and say thank you for the MMV.
I’ve been having a really rough time recently with a lot being required of me and subsequently I haven’t been in the village for a good 6 weeks. I just haven’t had the time or capacity for anything more than surviving (which is ironic I guess since I wanted to join the village to figure out how to thrive instead of just survive).
Anyway I dropped the kids off with my mum today and spend a good 5 hours or so making notes from week 1 and catching up on week 2 and 3. I really enjoyed thinking about the nervous system as I have a science background and it just spoke to me. I cried thinking about how to get back into the green zone. My 3.5 year old this week has been reminding to ‘do your deep breaths mummy’ when I’ve been yelling and in the complete overwhelm zone where I feel so out of control of my actions. It was humbling.

I don’t know particularly why I’m writing this to you, except maybe I’m feeling a need to be heard and you feel like a safe space.
Hoping to join the connection session this week but likely on mute as my 20 month old is only sleeping in 30 minute blocks and mostly needs to be held by me or he screams the house down and wakes the big kid.

Thank you for all you do. It’s doing far more than you could ever know.

Life changing

I came to the Village just before the birth of my first baby, and had no idea how truly transformational it would be. Being held by B and the wonderful group of women through my first post partum has honestly set me up for the most amazing start to our life as a family.

My relationship with my partner is tenfold stronger and meant we have been able to navigate the sleepless nights and highs and lows of parenting while our connection only gets deeper.

After years of talk therapy I thought I’d done the work but the Village took me far deeper, even just from witnessing others. Cannot reccomend it enough!!

A whole heap of love and gratitude for The Village ❤️

Oh hot diggity dang, what a gosh darn privilege it was to be a part of the most recent round of the Modern Mum Village. A privilege to be heard and held and an honour to bear witness to others taking up space of their own.

Not gonna lie, I had an emotional hangover for the first two weeks because it got real and deep and epic FAST. But the waters calmed - or maybe I just got better at sailing them - and it was a journey well worth travelling.

I loved the insights, I revelled in the honesty and my little heart soaked up allllll the compassion-and-trauma-informed-language and space holding. I've DIY'd a lot of "the work" over the last few years of parenting, partnering and motherhood, and it was bloody lovely to dive deep with a community of like minded souls. I joined the village when I was feeling particularly lonely and isolated (having moved to a tiny rural town) and the connection facilitated by B and the interwebs was truly heart-healing at a time when I really needed it.

So many of my relationships benefitted which was unexpected but very welcome. And regularly through the round, I would debrief with my husband and we would wind up in hours-long-conversations sharing our childhood stories, parenting triggers, reflections and revelations. In our current season of "in the trenches with 3 little people", this connection was like gifting us a weekly date night 😅

It truly makes my soul sing to see more and more people opening up to the healing and connection that this kind of "work" allows. I fantasise about a world where all parents and partners can show up for themselves and their families with these tools... and I appreciate that even having the space and mental bandwidth to explore this is a privilege that a lot of others don't have.

But. If you DO have a bit of capacity to get curious, explore the feelings and surrender to what comes up for you... I would highly recommend ❤️❤️

Truly transformational

I came to the village having done bits and pieces of 'the work' but nothing beats the accountability of the village, listening to women speak their truth and having the opportunity to speak your own. It has been truly life changing for me and my family. I have done two village rounds now and absolutely love it. I look forward to each session as the highlight of my week. B is sensational at holding space, offering advice and hitting nails on their heads! I love this juicy, nourishing space she has created so much and reccommend it to any mum that will listen.

The Village You Didn’t Know You Needed

I’ve been fortunate enough to be a part of the Village twice now and I’m certainly not going to miss out on this years.

Leading up to my first round I wasn’t completely sure I needed it as I have incredible mum-friends around me and for the most part, feel quite confident in my mothering abilities.
But I was still drawn to it and holy smokes haven’t I learnt an awful lot about myself and life in general!

Not only do you get the most incredible advice, genuine support and encouragement from B, you also learn soo, soo much from the other Mums! The questions of theirs that you can relate to. The solidarity feeling of all the “ahh, yes, me too”’s that’s happen and the connection and support you get when you share, if you feel called to.

I’m a better Mum, a better partner and a better Me, because of B’s village and I’m eternally grateful for this space and offering.

If you’re feeling unsure or wondering if it’s a worthy investment, especially because it’s for “yourself”, then ask yourself if it would be a worthy investment if it was something “for your kids” or to “save your relationship”?
If the answers yes, then there’s your answer, because alllll of it leads back to what’s best for you, your kids and your relationship.

You won’t be disappointed and you’ll learn things you didn’t even know you needed to, gain some incredible new friendships and of course, extra singing from the magical B.

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